How To Write A Magic Second Chance Letter

If you’re reading this, you’ve probably gone through one of the worst experiences of your life – the life shattering breakup. You’re also wondering what else you can do after reading countless advice columns and bad relationship advice from so called experts which just don’t seem to work. I even wrote on why listening to the relationship experts is not always a wise thing to do. It somehow left you wondering, “should I listen to the relationship expert or not?” I’m no relationship expert but I’ve been through that period in my life and I know how hopeless it all seems.

Sometimes the wise thing to do is the opposite of what your heart tells you to do, like not listening to the love gurus. The heart wants what the heart wants. The heart can be irrational and sometimes it can work against you. It is the weakness of the human mind. You can turn these weaknesses to work for you and ultimately win your ex back.

Let me share with you how with just a simple letter, you can get your ex back into your life. Let me show you also the importance of crafting the perfect magic second chance letter. Even if you’ve never written a single letter in your life, this could be the last thing in your effort to winning your ex back.

In short, it’s a handwritten letter more powerful than calling, texting, instant messaging and emailing can ever be. For one, a handwritten second chance letter shows sincerity and effort on your part. This translates as your willingness to want to get your ex back together again. It doesn’t matter how ugly your handwriting is, what matters is the content and the intention of the letter. If used correctly, this letter can open the door to that second chance that you’ve been praying to get.

Your get back together letter should be short and direct to the point. You should not sound as if you were begging your ex to take you back. The objective is to acknowledge the breakup and to show your ex that you respect her decision. This letter has two intentions. The first is when you want your ex to give you a second chance after you’ve just broken up, especially if you have blundered with other desperate measures such as calling or texting 50 times in a row or flooding her inbox right after the breakup. It’s more like a bandage to patch your broken relationship before you commit any dumb acts and driving them further away. The letter also acts as a door opener to the heart and mind of your ex. If your ex accepts this letter, consider your battle half won.

Remember, the best time to use this letter is the first few days after the breakup and before you chain yourself to her door as a desperate attempt to get back together. This letter will not work if you’re trying to get back with an old flame. It will be weird for somebody to receive the letter from you if you two haven’t spoken for a long time.

This get back together letter works because it shows that you are doing just fine, getting along very well without your ex in your mind. Other relationship experts would advice you otherwise and would probably not encourage this. But think about it, if your ex thinks that you are rationale and in the right state of mind (read: not desperate) they will be more likely to think about you as a person whom they used to have a great relationship with, rather than that person whom they’ve just left. In this calmer state of mind, they will be more likely to reflect on your good side, realise how mature you are and remember what made them attracted to you in the first place. Now wouldn’t that open the door for you to win back your ex?