If your ex has made a decision that your relationship is over, then you will have to accept with it and start moving on. I need to say that all potential solutions to your relationship are not a guarantee of success.

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Having said that, here are some suggestions that can help to get your girlfriend back:

The best and tough way is to cut off all communication. It is tough and it will be killing you but at the same time it will be killing her more. This will make her realize and understand how much she needs you and make her feel that she is missing you. It’s a biggest and a bold step.

You are left with no chance of getting back your ex girl friend if you’re not emotionally calm and controlled. Women dislike needy, clingy, desperate men - so you need to pull your own life together before attempting to draw her back into it.

Act as if you’re not interested in her and make her know that she can’t get you. People always want what they can’t have.

I don’t encourage this next tip. But use your own judgment and decide for yourself. It is pretty sneaky but can be effective. Bear in mind though that it might backfire. Use this tip at your own risk. Make her jealous by dating someone else. The powerful emotion is Jealousy.  Tell her that your new girlfriend is asking for sex and you want to know if there’s anything left between the two of you before you do it. I’m not condoning such trick. Just sharing with you that it is possible.

Not each and every girl is prone to fall for you just because she is jealous, try a sweeter way and just talk to her.

The best bet is to leave her alone. In the mean time go on with your life. Meet new people.

What ever you do, don’t call her; let her wonder what you are doing. If she does call you, act like you’re having fun, and you’re happy about the way your life is going.

Pretend she’s just a friend when you run into her. Act like she’s one of the guys, but show respect. Don’t call her at all!!

When your ex girl friend contacts you, you know your mission is accomplished, bring back the charm in you that helped you to win her in the first place.

When your ex gets back in touch, she’s probably not ready to talk about the break-up. Just pretend as if you had never dated her and treat her as an old friend. This will help you put her at ease and allow you to gradually nudge her towards reconciliation rather than running the risk of scaring her away.

The best and a better way to reconnect with your ex is to invite her for lunch or something equally non-threatening and time-bound. This assures her that you won’t overstay your 30-minute appointment, since both of you have to go back to work afterwards. Plus, if the meeting goes well and cool, it provides you with a great opportunity to leave her begging for more!

Once you’re back together after the break up, just sit down and discuss the issues that led you both to break-up and how you’re going to avoid them this time and in the future. If your relationship falls apart in a month down the line with the same problem there is no point going back into the relationship. That’s how you get your ex back.

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