Comments on: Get Ex Back Collection of Articles For January 2009 - See What You’ve Missed http://www.winningexback.com/get-ex-back-collection-of-articles-for-january-2009-see-what-youve-missed How To Win Ex Back Through Logical Thinking & Rational Behaviour, NOT Emotional Outbursts & Desperate Actions Tue, 07 Feb 2012 17:11:06 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: May http://www.winningexback.com/get-ex-back-collection-of-articles-for-january-2009-see-what-youve-missed/comment-page-1#comment-72 May Sun, 22 Feb 2009 01:53:53 +0000 http://www.winningexback.com/get-ex-back-collection-of-articles-for-january-2009-see-what-youve-missed#comment-72 Hi, I truly agree with what you said. Sex is always important in a relationship. But you have to also bear in mind that it varies from one couple to another couple. This deserves a whole blog post in itself. I'll try and keep this short and write a blog post on this soon. If you think sex is important, well and good. It is very important. But if the two of you have grown to a comfortable stage where love is shown through other ways instead of sex, then by all means, stick to it. Doesn't mean that you can't stay true to each other without it. When you're 60 or 70, sometimes love means more than just sex. It means somebody who will care for you till the end of your days. Maybe we are not talking about being 60 or 70 yet. Maybe you are in your prime. It is hard when you and your partner have different views on this, then this is the time where communication is always important. If you have a high sex drive and your wife doesn't, you can't force her into it or she won't perform, which could lead to the both of you feeling frustrated, which later might turn to something ugly, such as arguments, infidelity, etc. First, be patient, then, communication. You have to let your partner be aware that sex is not something for you to satisfy your needs, but also a way of you showing that you want your partner to feel good. It takes two to tango. It's all about intimacy and closeness. Sex is psychological to women as it is physical. Try to set the mood right before diving in. Try a different approach, instead of jumping the gun. I think this is long enough, maybe I'll blog about this soon. I'd like to know what others think about this. Hi, I truly agree with what you said. Sex is always important in a relationship. But you have to also bear in mind that it varies from one couple to another couple.

This deserves a whole blog post in itself. I’ll try and keep this short and write a blog post on this soon.

If you think sex is important, well and good. It is very important. But if the two of you have grown to a comfortable stage where love is shown through other ways instead of sex, then by all means, stick to it. Doesn’t mean that you can’t stay true to each other without it. When you’re 60 or 70, sometimes love means more than just sex. It means somebody who will care for you till the end of your days.

Maybe we are not talking about being 60 or 70 yet. Maybe you are in your prime. It is hard when you and your partner have different views on this, then this is the time where communication is always important. If you have a high sex drive and your wife doesn’t, you can’t force her into it or she won’t perform, which could lead to the both of you feeling frustrated, which later might turn to something ugly, such as arguments, infidelity, etc.

First, be patient, then, communication. You have to let your partner be aware that sex is not something for you to satisfy your needs, but also a way of you showing that you want your partner to feel good. It takes two to tango. It’s all about intimacy and closeness. Sex is psychological to women as it is physical. Try to set the mood right before diving in. Try a different approach, instead of jumping the gun.

I think this is long enough, maybe I’ll blog about this soon. I’d like to know what others think about this.

]]> By: KEEPTHATSPARK http://www.winningexback.com/get-ex-back-collection-of-articles-for-january-2009-see-what-youve-missed/comment-page-1#comment-54 KEEPTHATSPARK Tue, 03 Feb 2009 02:31:31 +0000 http://www.winningexback.com/get-ex-back-collection-of-articles-for-january-2009-see-what-youve-missed#comment-54 its all about the sex...no matter what anyone says...why do women or men cheat...for that euphoria feeling you get when someone new pays attention to you..with a slight touch he can send shivers up your spine...you feel beautiful, special, and all that...and for a man..he feels wanted and not taken for granted.. see its hard to maintain that initial feeling of lust and love..but for me...its been about 15 years and I am 33 so mind you I went from young girl to a woman in her prime..we went through all stages..I even must admit that I was sooo tempted to cheat...but I came to my senses..thank God because I could have lost everything..we have 4 children together and nothing is more important than that.... anyways....you need to keep that spark..you need to treat your husband like another woman will if they had just met..you know what I mean..the way you would treat each other if you just started dating..also...look good...fat or skinny it doesnt matter..just look sexy a few times a week... and most importantly....SEX...GREAT SEX....ALOT OF GREAT SEX..LOL..4real!!! WITH TOYS...LOTS AND LOTS OF ADULT TOYS....IT WORKS..YOU WILL LOVE IT..HE WILL LOVE IT... If you have some toys already and their old...throw those out and buy the new interesting stuff... good luck...and please your partner in bed....OR SOMEONE ELSE WILL...sounds harsh...but its reality... its all about the sex…no matter what anyone says…why do women or men cheat…for that euphoria feeling you get when someone new pays attention to you..with a slight touch he can send shivers up your spine…you feel beautiful, special, and all that…and for a man..he feels wanted and not taken for granted..

see its hard to maintain that initial feeling of lust and love..but for me…its been about 15 years and I am 33 so mind you I went from young girl to a woman in her prime..we went through all stages..I even must admit that I was sooo tempted to cheat…but I came to my senses..thank God because I could have lost everything..we have 4 children together and nothing is more important than that….

anyways….you need to keep that spark..you need to treat your husband like another woman will if they had just met..you know what I mean..the way you would treat each other if you just started dating..also…look good…fat or skinny it doesnt matter..just look sexy a few times a week…
and most importantly….SEX…GREAT SEX….ALOT OF GREAT SEX..LOL..4real!!! WITH TOYS…LOTS AND LOTS OF ADULT TOYS….IT WORKS..YOU WILL LOVE IT..HE WILL LOVE IT…

If you have some toys already and their old…throw those out and buy the new interesting stuff…
good luck…and please your partner in bed….OR SOMEONE ELSE WILL…sounds harsh…but its reality…

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