If only we could all live happily ever after, like they say in the books, but most of us don’t. Relationships that start off great often end up in disaster, even most friendships don’t last forever. If you have found yourself in an unhappy relationship, what should you do?

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The definition of an unhappy relationship differs from person to person. For example, is it just you who is unhappy, or are both parties unhappy? More often than not, it is just one person who is not happy with the way they are being treated. If you believe this is the case in your relationship, then you need to take it upon yourself to start healing the relationship.

The first thing you need to do to heal or change an unhappy relationship is to determine what it is that is making you unhappy. Do you not get enough attention? Are your wishes not respected? Are you treated rudely or abusively? Define what it is that is making you unhappy and then go about trying to change it.

If you aren’t given enough attention, it may be that you appear hard or stand-offish to your partner. Maybe they just don’t know that you WANT more attention! By identifying your needs and making them clear to your partner, you may well get what you want.

Sometimes a relationship that is unhappy is actually abusive and that is when you have to get out. No one deserves to be abused – physically, mentally, verbally, sexually, or otherwise – so get out as soon as you can. No relationship is worth putting up with that. Your self-esteem will suffer and you could be putting yourself in serious danger. If this happens to you, talk to your friends, talk to authorities to protect yourself, and find a way out.

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