People who are single look at those of us who are partnered with someone and wish they could be like us. But, they don’t know what actually goes on in a relationship. A relationship that is kind and loving in public may be sinister and cold behind closed doors.
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If you find yourself in a relationship that just isn’t working for you, one that is making you more miserable than it is happy, then you owe it to yourself to try and repair relationship troubles before you walk out the door.

1. Identify what it is that you are unhappy about. Is your partner a slob? Has your partner cheated on you? Are you disrespected? Are your partner’s friends or hobby put before your desires?

2. Put yourself in your partner’s shoes. What is it that could be causing these problems? Relationship troubles are rarely one-sided, so try and figure out what it is that your partner doesn’t like about you.

3. Arrange to have a quiet discussion with your partner. Don’t do it in front of the television or the kids, and don’t do it in a public place. Do it when you are both alert, have time, and are willing to talk.

4. Identify the problems that each of you are having and do so without being accusatory.

5. Make a plan for solving the problems. Create a checklist or a partnership plan that you both agree to stick to for a fixed period of time, and then arrange your next relationship meeting to discuss the progress.

You can repair relationship problems if you treat your partnership seriously. Take a non-emotional, businesslike approach to the problems your relationship is having and make a plan to fix it. Only then can you get on with your relationship and life in a loving manner.

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