As a relationship expert, one of the most common requests I hear is, “Help my relationship!” But, what the person is actually asking is for me to make his or her partner into the perfect partner.

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If you are saying that you want to “help my relationship” too, then are you asking for your partner to be just like you? Or, are you willing to change, too? Have you ever sat your partner down and asked how they saw you, and what they wanted?

One of the best things you can do for any relationship is to have a heart-to-heart talk about what you like and dislike about the other person. This is not a means to trade accusations, but rather a way to clear the air. Tell your partner what you like about them, what they do that makes you happy, and then slip in a little improvement they could make. If you love how they make the bed in the morning or pick up after themselves, but hate how they forget to put away their clothes, then tell them. It is always better to tell them your problems than to keep it in side and wait for it to fester.

Part of this exercise also includes being told what you do right and what you do wrong, so be prepared for it. You might even know what it is that bugs someone else, but then again you might even have no idea how happy you make them either!

If your partner is saying, “Help my relationship!” then you owe it to them to have this talk. Most relationships can be saved and improved through a little conversation. Make sure you are not accusatory, do not imply that someone is trying to hurt or bother you on purpose, and you should make some headway into improving your relationship.

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