Hi all, normally I don’t write during the weekends, as the weekends should be spent with families and all. But today is different as I got bored and checked my blog and found out that after I put up the post on the Google Friend Connect, I see that there are 21 people who joined this blog. I was astonished. Now I know who my readers are. Thanks for those who have registered.

For those who haven’t registered yet, I’d appreciate that if you could join us all. This is our way of getting to know one another and help each other in turn.

So, if you haven’t yet, please click the “Join This Site” button to socialize with other members. You have nothing to lose but everything to gain. Join now. Cheers guys!

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I’ve had it. I’ve had it with the fact that I don’t know who are reading my blog. I’ve finally added this cool feature called Google Friend Connect. You can find it underneath the banner on the right hand side of this blog.

I’d like to connect with the readers of this blog and I want you to connect with other readers of this blog too. Socialize with one another you know.

This way, we all can get to know each other and discover other people from all over the world with similar interests. As love and relationship are very social subjects, hopefully by adding this tool, we can all help one another in our love life.

I’ve included a short video explaining what Google Friend Connect does. I think the video is able to explain what this tool is about better. I do hope to see some of you join this bandwagon. Cheers!

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My husband and I were watching MTV the other day and we saw this music video by one of my husband’s favorite bands. My husband loves music and he plays the guitar and sings. That is one of the things that attracted me to him.

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Ok, back to the story, I can’t stand some of the bands that my husband listens to. Too loud for my taste. But this particular band is a band that I love as well. It’s Coldplay.

Well, the song is called “Fix You” and everytime I listen to that song, I feel so sad. I don’t know why. The lyrics is good. This is pretty much our conversation.

Husband: May, this song is about your blog.

Me: What? (confused) Why?

Husband: It’s about how you’re trying to fix other people’s broken relationship and all that. I think you should put this song in your blog too. It’s such a nice song for other people to listen to. It’s a way of letting people know that hope is always there, if you seek it.

Now, my husband can be a wise guy sometimes. I love him for it. He’s right about me trying to fix other people’s broken relationship. I don’t claim to be an expert in relationships. Whatever I write in this blog is because of my interest in this topic and is also based on my experience and what I read.

So, whatever it is, I would like to dedicate this song to the readers of my blog. You know who you are and I hope that I’m able to fix your broken relationship. So, enjoy the video, even if you’ve watched this video before, I recommend that you watch it again. If you haven’t, I know you’ll love it, watch out for the 2.31 minute mark, when everything starts to expodes.

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This is the second article from Samantha, a regular reader of my blog. You can find her first article here: 4 Easy Steps To Get Your Ex Back. If you have a writing talent on relationship topic and would like to share, please do not hesitate to contact me. Even better if you have a website so that I can link to your website in this blog of mine.

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Relationships give a euphoric and wonderful feeling. So when the relationship comes to an end, it is natural for most of us to want to get an ex back. The fact is that most relationships can be salvaged because a good portion of break-ups are as result of misunderstandings. A lot of advice and methods have been put forth on how to get your ex back. Some are good and some are drastic, but below are the best ways to get your ex back without looking desperate and pathetic or resorting to drastic measures.

Love Yourself

It is common knowledge that when you are feeling good and confident about yourself, then you are more attractive to others. It is common for people to feel sorry and blame themselves after a break up. Wallowing in a pity party is bound to put off your ex. Instead invest in yourself and make a conscious effort to remain positive about getting back your ex. Positive people yield positive results.

Exercise and remain fit

Usually people tend to gain weight after a break up if they are emotional eaters. If you make it a point to exercise and keep fit even after your break-up, your confidence and self image will soar. When your confidence is up and you feel good about yourself then you are more attractive. You can then approach your ex and try to patch things up as best you can.

Learn from your mistakes

A good pointer is to try and find out exactly why the relationship broke down the in the first place. When this information is clear, you can then both sit down and find a solution to try and correct this problem and make a pact to ensure that the mistakes will not be repeated.

Jealousy won’t work

Most of us hold the mis-conception that if we make our ex’s jealous enough they will come running back to us. This is bound to have the opposite effect especially if you want them back. You want him/her to miss you and view you as precious and see himself as invaluable in your life. Trying to make him jealous may result in him hating you and then the relationship is unfixable.

Don’t rush your ex

When the relationship comes to an end, it is normal to feel a sense of urgency in trying to repair the break down. The worst thing that you can do is to try and push your ex back into the relationship when they are not ready. All this will achieve is to push them farther away. The best move is to allow them time and space to sort out their feelings and get over the pain.

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This is one of 2 articles from a reader of this blog called Samantha. She wrote to me asking if it was ok if she wanted to share some info on the topic of getting ex back. I’m glad to post her articles here. You can find the second article here: Get More Tips On How To Get Your Ex Back.

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Have you ever considered getting back your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend after things have gone sore? It may have be your mistake that the relationship ended and you wish for a chance to prove that you can do it right once again. This can be a challenge to you, considering that the other person may have been hurt emotionally and whose, he or she may not be easily convinced that you have changed for the better.

A lot of advice has been put forward in many platforms offering tips and ways of quickly getting an ex back.  Some have gone ahead to suggest various mind games that you can play on your ex to get the attention.  Below, I have complied some of the best solutions to help you boost your image and self esteem, increase your confidence and help you get your ex back.

Keep Your acquaintances Close: After things have gone to the dogs between you and your ex, the worst thing you can do is to loose your friends in the process. Make sure you explain to your friends and the ex’s friends why you separated. Inform them they you are still friends despite the breakup with your ex. This will help boost your esteem and image, as your ex may see that you are still social and attractive to people.

Keep Your Body Fit: Body weight can be a cause for break ups. If not so, then it can be a hindrance if you want to get your ex back. If you are overweight, try and loose some ounces. By exercising and keeping fit, you will look even more attractive and this is a plus to you.  The other thing is that you will get some confidence back. Loosing weight through exercising will also reduce chances of stress attack and wrinkling of the skin.

Take a Balanced Diet: Eating the right food in the right quantities should be your good practice. Avoid eating a lot of food as you may add up unnecessary weight. You will also ensure that your body is healthy and strong by eating foods that are fresh and nutritious.

Appreciate The Way You Are: It’s not worthwhile to keep on blaming and pitying yourself. Appreciate your self more and you will get the motivation to do things right.  You will also boost you self esteem and image by knowing that you are being appreciated by others in return. Your ex won’t appreciate you if you don’t do it to yourself first.

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