"Winning ex back is through logical thinking and rational behaviour, not emotional outbursts and desperate action" - May Lehmann. (wink, wink)

"Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down."
-Oprah Winfrey

"Well, it seems to me that the best relationships - the ones that last - are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with" ~ Gillian Anderson

"It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations." – Kahlin Gibran

"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies." – Aristotle

"Where does the family start? It starts with a young man falling in love with a girl - no superior alternative has yet been found." – Winston Churchill

"The act of forgiveness is the act of returning to present time. And that’s why when one has become a forgiving person, and has managed to let go of the past, what they’ve really done is they’ve shifted their relationship with time." – Caroline Myss

"Man is a knot into which relationships are tied." ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

"Once the trust goes out of a relationship, it’s really no fun lying to ‘em anymore." -Norm from Cheers

"Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they’re trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take." -Anthony Robbins

"The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart." – Helen Keller

"Love doesn’t just sit there like a stone; it has to be made - like bread, remade all the time, made new." – Ursula LeGuin

"Some people come into our lives and leave footprints on our hearts and we are never ever the same." -Flavia Weedn

"You can’t stop loving or wanting to love because when it’s right, it’s the best thing in the world. When you’re in a relationship and it’s good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete." ~ Keith Sweat

"Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." – Mark Twain

"To love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person." – Eric Fromm

"Our greatest joy-and our greatest pain comes in our relationships with others." ~ Stephen R. Covey

I hope that the collection of good relationship quotes above will inspire you to improve your relationship for the better. If you have your own quotes about relationships, or by other people that are not listed above, please do not hesitate to share with us all.

How To Write A Magic Second Chance Letter

If you’re reading this, you’ve probably gone through one of the worst experiences of your life – the life shattering breakup. You’re also wondering what else you can do after reading countless advice columns and bad relationship advice from so called experts which just don’t seem to work. I even wrote on why listening to the relationship experts is not always a wise thing to do. It somehow left you wondering, “should I listen to the relationship expert or not?” I’m no relationship expert but I’ve been through that period in my life and I know how hopeless it all seems.

Sometimes the wise thing to do is the opposite of what your heart tells you to do, like not listening to the love gurus. The heart wants what the heart wants. The heart can be irrational and sometimes it can work against you. It is the weakness of the human mind. You can turn these weaknesses to work for you and ultimately win your ex back.

Let me share with you how with just a simple letter, you can get your ex back into your life. Let me show you also the importance of crafting the perfect magic second chance letter. Even if you’ve never written a single letter in your life, this could be the last thing in your effort to winning your ex back.

In short, it’s a handwritten letter more powerful than calling, texting, instant messaging and emailing can ever be. For one, a handwritten second chance letter shows sincerity and effort on your part. This translates as your willingness to want to get your ex back together again. It doesn’t matter how ugly your handwriting is, what matters is the content and the intention of the letter. If used correctly, this letter can open the door to that second chance that you’ve been praying to get.

Your get back together letter should be short and direct to the point. You should not sound as if you were begging your ex to take you back. The objective is to acknowledge the breakup and to show your ex that you respect her decision. This letter has two intentions. The first is when you want your ex to give you a second chance after you’ve just broken up, especially if you have blundered with other desperate measures such as calling or texting 50 times in a row or flooding her inbox right after the breakup. It’s more like a bandage to patch your broken relationship before you commit any dumb acts and driving them further away. The letter also acts as a door opener to the heart and mind of your ex. If your ex accepts this letter, consider your battle half won.

Remember, the best time to use this letter is the first few days after the breakup and before you chain yourself to her door as a desperate attempt to get back together. This letter will not work if you’re trying to get back with an old flame. It will be weird for somebody to receive the letter from you if you two haven’t spoken for a long time.

This get back together letter works because it shows that you are doing just fine, getting along very well without your ex in your mind. Other relationship experts would advice you otherwise and would probably not encourage this. But think about it, if your ex thinks that you are rationale and in the right state of mind (read: not desperate) they will be more likely to think about you as a person whom they used to have a great relationship with, rather than that person whom they’ve just left. In this calmer state of mind, they will be more likely to reflect on your good side, realise how mature you are and remember what made them attracted to you in the first place. Now wouldn’t that open the door for you to win back your ex?

One such guy I know is TW Jackson who also happens to be the author of The Magic of Making Up book. In case you didn’t know it already, the book has helped thousands of people already. If getting back with your ex is all you can think about, this is a must read book and I highly recommend it. You owe it to yourself.

Don’t believe me? Check out the unsolicited testimonials presented by Mr. T Dub himself, sent by the people who got their ex back after following the strategies put up together by T Dub taught in his Magic of Making Up ebook.

Or read my Magic of Making Up review.